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Ellen Anderman's avatar

Yes to more about Shira Gill’s new book. You introduced her to me and in joy her very-different-from-mine style and her direct and refreshing take on decluttering, organizing and living. I’d appreciate some focused deep-dives on the last.

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Allison's avatar

Love today's post!

In response to what has living small given/taken away:

I'm at the beginning of the journey, having sold my 1450 sq ft house last April that I lived in for 29 years, where I raised my children, and just moved into my custom-built tiny house (391 sq ft) in October. I'm still unpacking-- maneuvering around boxes as I bring a load each day in my tiny car from storage--but already aware of what it's given and taken away.

Given: my dream!--even from the time I was about 5, I can remember wanting to live in a tiny house--I'd even draw floor plans way back then! I am lucky to have been able to work with the builders to accommodate my loves in the design--a library for all my books, and storage for my fiber arts supplies. I am so happy in the coziness of small space, not having to spend much time cleaning, and I love being forced to pare back my belongings--it feels good to me to evaluate what I really need and is most important to me, and send things I love to new homes where they are also loved, even things that I treasured-- like my grandfather's antique postmaster's desk--far too large to keep, but the person who got it is thrilled and making wonderful use of it. The joy of giving more than balances out the sadness of giving it up. Also, my tiny house is situated on my daughter's property, so I can be a daily part of my grandchildren's lives-- it's a big difference from driving back and forth between houses even when close. (And a silver lining I hadn't thought of before moving in: I'm a friendly introvert, which means I need lots of time alone, but also really like people one-on-one or in very small groups... tiny living means I'll never feel obligated to host big holidays!)

Taken away: While I love evaluating what is most important to me, it can be hard to let go of some sentimental items--I'm still trying to figure out how I can keep some of them without feeling cluttered, or how I could find a home that would truly appreciate them (like a small wooden cabinet hand-made by my great-grandfather, with drawers originally for nails and such things). I know it will be okay, but the process can be painful. I didn't really know until I was in my house how much I would be able to keep, so I brought more than I can keep.

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